Philippians 3:20 says we're citizens of Heaven. So that means we're only passing through here. We're travelers in a strange land. I've had many experiences in my life that God has shown His leading and love in such a way that I want to spread it to others.
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Thursday, March 22, 2012
The Woman Caught in Adultery
John 8:1-11 is an awesome story. It's about the woman caught in adultery. Read it by clicking here. I was thinking yesterday about this story. And God brought to my attention something. In this story, we find Jesus does 3 things for us. He loves us. He defends us. He forgives us.
He loves us despite past mistakes. You can have a checkered past. Jesus loves you anyway. This was the woman caught in adultery. She was a prostitute. Not only that, but she was possessed 7 times. But He didn't send her away. He didn't tell them to stone her. He loved her anyway. Seven times Jesus freed her from demonic control. And as a result, she gave Him her life. She was the first to see Jesus after His resurrection. What wondrous love! What matchless love! A woman with a history like hers, and He still loved her anyway.
Not only does Jesus love us despite our mistakes, He defends us. Here the crowd of scribes and pharisees were, trying to get Jesus to make a decision (so they could trap Him). But He didn't say a word. He just bent down. Some might wonder how not saying anything counts as defending her. But if He would have said to stone her, He wouldn't be the loving Son of God He claimed to be. If He said to let her go, He wouldn't be following the Mosaic law. So He just bent down and starting writing in the sand.
But they kept pestering Him. So He got up and said, "He who is without sin, let him cast the first stone." I can imagine the woman must have cringed. After all, it was a crowd of self righteous people accusing her. But that didn't happen. The accusers went away. One by one. Oldest first, down to the youngest. He defended this woman. Notice that He did not defend her sin. But He did defend her life.
He loves us anyway, and defends us.
Lastly, He forgives us. And not only does He forgive us, He tells us to stop sinning. He asked the woman where her accusers went and if anyone condemned her. She noticed that they left and said, "No one, Lord." Then Jesus told her to stop sinning. Jesus never asks us to do something without giving us the strength to do it. But don't be fooled. Neither you nor I can do a thing without Christ. But if we have a relationship with Jesus, then, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." - Philippians 4:13.
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Friday, December 30, 2011
God Demonstrates His Love For Us
Romans 5:8 (NKJV)
8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
That word, "sinners," literally means "devoted to sin." As humans we sin by nature. But what Paul is saying here is that while we were still devoted to a life of sin, God still loved us. He still loves us. He is crazy about us. If God had a refridgerator, our pictures and drawings would be all over it. If He had a wallet, the picture holder would be endless.
Check out this song called, "Beloved." It's by a group called Tenth Avenue North.
8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
That word, "sinners," literally means "devoted to sin." As humans we sin by nature. But what Paul is saying here is that while we were still devoted to a life of sin, God still loved us. He still loves us. He is crazy about us. If God had a refridgerator, our pictures and drawings would be all over it. If He had a wallet, the picture holder would be endless.
Check out this song called, "Beloved." It's by a group called Tenth Avenue North.
Monday, December 12, 2011
Homosexuality: A New Testament Perspective
So last time we
talked about homosexuality, it was from an Old Testament perspective. In this
blog post, we’ll be going over the New Testament perspective. This is my view
of what the New Testament says on homosexuality. As you know from the last
post, I believe homosexuality is a sin. Having said that, I believe in living
how Jesus lived, in loving the sinner and hating the sin. I know that phrase
may be offensive to some, likely because they don’t see being homosexual a sin.
And as I said in the OT Perspective blog, if you do not believe in the Bible,
this may not be very convincing to you. Let’s dig into the New Testament
perspective.
The first scripture is from Romans 1:26-27 NKJV:
26
For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women
exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise
also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for
one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves
the penalty of their error which was due.
This word, “use”
means the natural use of sex. The context here is that people turned against
God, so He gave them over to their sinful desires. God created us a certain
way, as this scripture states. Women were going against how God created them to
be sexually. So were the men. Men “burned in their lust for one another.” Lust
is a perverted sexual desire. Men and women lusted toward their own genders.
I’ve heard the argument that some scriptures only denounce forced homosexual
sex. However, this scripture here says otherwise. This scripture is referring
to consensual homosexual sex.
Another
scripture is 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV:
9
Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do
not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor
homosexuals nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor
drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
The
word for in this verse for “homosexual” is μαλακός. This
can mean effeminate. It can also mean a boy that was kept for homosexual sex
for an adult man. Some have used this scripture to say that it only refers to
this, thereby trying to excuse their lifestyle choice or that of a
friend/family member. However, this word also means a man that does unnatural sexual
acts with his body willingly.
1 Timothy 1:9-10 NKJV says this:
9
knowing this: that the law is not made for a righteous person, but for the lawless and insubordinate, for the ungodly and for sinners, for the unholy and profane, for murderers
of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers, 10 for
fornicators, for sodomites, for kidnappers, for liars, for perjurers, and if
there is any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine,
One
thing I’ve noticed is that when Paul states who will not be in heaven, he
always is referring to people who refuse to give up their sins. It’s one thing
to sin unintentionally. The Bible refers to this as trying to hit the target,
but not quite making it. However, it’s another thing to live in complete
contradiction to God’s laws. That said, Paul also writes a list of multiple
kinds of sins. He didn’t focus on just one in these previous scriptures.
So what’s the
point in the last couple of scriptures? It doesn’t matter what the sexual sin
is or any other sin. If we refuse to give it up, it will keep us out of Heaven.
A man cheating on his wife (or vice versa) is just as much a sin in God’s eyes
as is homosexuality. Looking at pornography is just as bad a sin as two people
of the same gender engaging in sexual acts with each other. Stealing will keep
us out of Heaven just the same way any kind of sexual sin will if we refuse to
give it up.
Jude
1:7 has this to say KJV:
as Sodom and Gomorrah, and the cities around them in
a similar manner to these, having given themselves over to sexual immorality
and gone after strange flesh, are set forth as an example, suffering the
vengeance of eternal fire.
Jude
is simply saying here that Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed because of “going
after strange flesh” and partaking in sexual immorality. As we’ve already
discussed, sexual immorality includes homosexuality, adultery, and other acts
of sex outside of God’s original intention for sexual relations.
Some folks use
Matthew 8:5-13 as proof that Jesus condoned homosexuality. It tells the story
of when Jesus healed the servant of a Roman centurion. The claim is that in
some cases, these servants were actually male sex servants. However, this is
negated by their own defense of another passage. As we discussed in 1
Corinthians 6:9-10, the word for homosexual in this passage could mean a boy that was kept as a homosexual sex servant for an adult
man. So we see that this defense is defenseless. Homosexuality is a sin.
Also,
many times before Jesus would heal a person, He would say, “Your sins are
forgiven.” He would also tell them to go and sin no more. As I have stated in
previous posts, Jesus loves everyone. But He loves us all too much to leave us
the way we are. He wants to transform us into His image.
Jesus
created marriage as a holy union between a man and a woman. But let me go one
step further. Marriage is meant to have Jesus as the head, and the man and wife
second. Any husband and wife that love Jesus more than each other is what God
intended. He created marriage to mirror how deep intimacy should go between us
and Him, individually. I leave you with a few scriptures. I will write another
post in this series. It will be along the lines of how we should treat those
who live in sinful opposition to God, whether that sin is sexual immorality or
lying.
Matthew 19:4-5 (NIV)
4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that
at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and
said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to
his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?
Genesis 1:27-28 (NIV)
27 So God created mankind in his own
image,
in the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them.
in the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them.
28 God blessed them and said to them,
“Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over
the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature
that moves on the ground.”
John 3:16 (NKJV)
16 For God so loved the world that He
gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but
have everlasting life.
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Homosexuality: An Old Testament Perspective
Homosexuality.
Few things are as controversial as this topic. Many believe there’s nothing
wrong with it. Many believe it is wrong. I will be honest in my opinion on it.
I do believe that homosexuality is wrong and will keep a person out of Heaven. “Now
hang on,” you say. “What proof do you have for this? What makes you think it’s
so wrong?” This blog on the topic is my attempt to explain my views on the
subject and why I hold those views.
However,
let me say that I hold the view of “love the sinner, hate the sin.” To go up to
someone out of the blue and say, “You’re going to lose your salvation if you
don’t change! Repent,” is not how I think it should be done. While I do agree
with the essence of this statement, I don’t think it should be done in a condemning
way. Jesus associated with many types of people. Many of whom were scorned by
the society of His time on Earth. But He loved them and gave them every chance
to change. Jesus loved the sinner and hated their sin. He still does.
Having
said all this, this blog is written from a Biblical point of view. If you don’t
hold the Bible as the sole scriptural authority, this probably won’t be very
convincing to you. If you do, it might be convincing to you. It is my prayer
that those who study the Bible on this topic (and any topic) will come to know
what God desires of them and their behavior. I will be using mostly Biblical
references both in scripture passages and the original languages behind them.
A
lot of these verses that I’m using here are considered “clobber” verses.
However, it is not my intention to clobber folks into obedience to God’s word.
God doesn’t force people to obey Him and neither will I. I do feel, though,
that it is the duty of every Christian to not shy away from what the Bible says
on something simply because of a fear of people’s reactions. That’s why I
started this blog. I feel called to write on Biblical topics. Now then, if
you’re still with me, let’s dig in.
In
Genesis 19 we find the story of angels visiting with Lot and his family. As you
may recall, Lot was a relative of Abraham. At the time, Mr. and Mrs. Lot and
their daughters lived in Sodom. God had told Abraham that He was going to
destroy both Sodom and Gamorrah because of the amount of wickedness in both
cities. Abraham prayed several questions to the affect of if 50 people, then
less and less until he got down to 10 righteous people being in Sodom, that God
would spare the city. God said yes but even 10 righteous people could not be
found in Sodom.
When
the angels got there, Lot insisted on inviting them in, even though they said
they would stay in the town square. However, it says this in verse 4 of Genesis
19: “Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of
Sodom—both young and old—surrounded the house.” Every man in the city
surrounded the place. But that’s not the worst part. Here is verse 5 in a few
different versions:
“They called to Lot, ‘Where are the
men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with
them.’ ” NIV
“ ‘And they called unto Lot, and
said unto him, Where are the men which came in to thee this night? Bring them
out unto us, that we may know them.’ ” KJV
“And they called to Lot and said to
him, ‘Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us that we
may know them carnally.’ ” NKJV
The
NKJV probably captures the original Hebrew best. The word here is יָדַע or yada`. The word itself can
translate several ways. But in the sense of intimacy, it was one of the words
used to have the meaning of knowing someone carnally. In other words, it was a
word used for wanting to have sex with someone. Let’s put it together as the
verse said. All the men of the city surrounded the city because they wanted to
have sex with Lots visitors. Instead, the angels struck them with blindness.
“Hang on,” I hear someone say. “You’re saying angels. It was angels
they wanted to have sex with. Not men.” However, they men of the city didn’t
know this. Often times angels in the Old Testament appeared as men so sometimes
even the visited didn’t know they were angels. Even the author of Hebrews said this
in chapter 13:2, “Do not forget to entertain strangers,
for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it.” The
men of the city didn’t know the visitors were angels. They thought they were
other men and the townsmen wanted to engage in sexual behavior with them.
Lot
tried to convince the townsmen otherwise. He even offered his virgin daughters
to them as an alternative. He knew that the desires of these men were wrong.
But they didn’t want to listen. They kept pressing forward yelling threats. The
angels then pulled Lot back in and the men outside were then struck with
blindness. Lot and family were given a warning by the angels in verse 12 and
13.
The two men said to Lot, “Do you
have anyone else here—sons-in-law, sons or daughters, or anyone else in the
city who belongs to you? Get them out of here, 13 because we are
going to destroy this place. The outcry to the LORD against its people is so
great that he has sent us to destroy it.”NIV
So
Lot and his family left and fled to another city. Then the angels carried out God’s
command to destroy the city.
Here’s
a couple passages in Leviticus.
Leviticus
18:22 says, “Do not have sexual relations
with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.”NIV
Leviticus
20:13 says, “If a man has sexual
relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is
detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own
heads. “ NIV
The
word here for sexual relations is the
same in both verses. שָׁכַב or shakab.
This word has a stronger meaning of sexual behavior. The passages are pretty
straight forward. These were given to the Israelites shortly after the Exodus
from Egypt. Israel had spent four centuries as slaves to the Egyptians. As such
they needed to be reminded of several things. Don’t sleep with members of the
same sex or face death and their blood will be on their own heads. In other
words, it’s their own fault.
I
know some folks reading this may be thinking that this is just referring to
men. And even the Hebrew word here can mean man as in a male. אִישׁ or ‘iysh.
However, it can also mean human kind,
whosever, or even each. Here are
a few examples with the corresponding words made to stand out:
Genesis 23:6 says,
“Sir, listen to
us. You are a mighty prince among us. Bury your dead in the choicest of our
tombs. None of us will refuse
you his tomb for burying your dead.” NIV
Genesis
38:2 says, “And Judah saw there a
daughter of a certain
Canaanite whose name was Shua,
and he married her and went in to her.” NKJV
Exodus
12:22 says, “Take a bunch of hyssop, dip
it into the blood in the basin and put some of the blood on the top and on both
sides of the doorframe. None
of you shall go out of the door of your house until morning.” NIV
Those
are the major passages from the Old Testament that speak on the subject of
homosexuality. Now enters the excuse that the Old Testament laws no longer
matter; that they were nailed to the cross when Jesus died for us. Some might
say that it’s just the ceremonial laws that don’t matter anymore. These were
not from ceremonial laws. Nor are the Old Testament laws invalid. Jesus said in
Matthew 5:18:
“For
assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle
will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled.”
The
jot refers to the smallest Hebrew letter, “yod.” The word tittle refers to the
smallest stroke of this letter. So Jesus said that not even the smallest piece
of the smallest letter will ever disappear from the law. So these laws that God
gave to the Israelites still stand. Not the ceremonial laws, mind you. But
that’s another blog for another time.
In
Judges 19:14-29 we find a story similar to that of Lot. A man, with his
concubine and servant, were traveling trying to reach an Israelite city to
spend the night in. They reached Gibeah and parked in the town square. An old
man came in from work and asked them if they would spend the night with him
instead of where they were. While they were in the old man’s house, some wicked
men surrounded the house. They demanded that they be given the man who entered
the house so that they could have sex with him.
However,
the owner of the house pleaded with them not to do such an evil thing. He
offered to them his daughter and the guest’s concubine. The men wouldn’t listen
so he sent the concubine out anyway. They raped her all night and she was dead
by morning. Now I’m not saying it was right for the men of the city to do what
they did to the woman. In the next chapter we find out what happened to the men
of Gibeah for their evilness; because rape is every bit as bad and evil as
homosexuality.
So
what is God’s plan for marriage? Let’s take a look at a few more Old Testament
passages to find out.
Genesis
1:27, 28 says, So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 28
Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have
dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every
living thing that moves on the earth.”
Genesis 2:18-25 says, And the LORD God said, “It is not good that man should be
alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” 19 Out of the
ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the air,
and brought them to Adam to see
what he would call them. And whatever Adam called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So Adam
gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the
field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him.
21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. 22 Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.
23 And Adam said:
“This is now bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out of Man.”
21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. 22 Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.
23 And Adam said:
“This is now bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out of Man.”
24
Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
So
we see here that God’s intention for marriage is one man with one woman. Not a
man with a man or a woman with a woman. But even in the man and woman
relationship there are principles we are to live by. But again, that’s another
blog for another time.
This
is what I believe about homosexuality from an Old Testament perspective. Stay
tuned for a New Testament perspective on this subject. I know not everyone will
agree with me. I know people will both vehemently disagree and agree to
disagree with me. This is what I believe the Old Testament teaches on the
subject and we will soon cover what the New Testament speaks about it. I pray
you stay with me as we study this subject. And I pray you fall ever deeper in
love with God, no matter what subject we study.
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Friday, October 14, 2011
While I'm Waiting.
There is a song called, While I'm Waiting. The message is a powerful one. While we are waiting for God, we should serve Him. However painful the situation may be, serving and praising our Heavenly Father is the only way to make it through. Here's the video for the song. It's from the movie Fireproof. It's a powerful song in a powerful movie.
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